Guys... You deal with this too???
 

Alright, well seems like every damn weekend for the last 2 months envolves my GF and her friends haveing something that they THINK I MUST attend! Really? How many times do i have to say, ITS BORING, NO I DONT WANT TO GO!

Wemon have some stupid ass parties just about all the damn time!!!

I say no. because I dont want to go. I would rather shoot my self in the foot or split my head open.... wait been there.... than go to another stupid ass party with her friends!

She dont ever want to go to my friends house to watch football, or go to the track to watch some racing...

anybody else go through this?

Today was a Graduation party for some chick I meet 1 damn time, and im expected to act like shes a really good friend??!??!?! NOOO

I agree with you totally, but the sad truth is, the one who has the Taco controls the appetite! If She's anything like mine, she likes playing the Taco card at times like that. If she gets to play the taco card long enough, you go hungry long time. And yours is a GF, mines a wife. I get my way when I show my butt, but I should be skin and bones! LOL!

beat her to the punch, "Honey we have an engadgment we have to attend... Blah blah" start dragging her to all you meetings see how long that lasts"thumbsup"

go through with it, attend her parties, talk it up, get in good as hell with her friends and she might start to get the feeling you might wanna try to take advantage of the situation.... hint hint.... and then she might wanna start to distance you all from each other....

sometimes ya gotta use some reverse psychology or jedi minds tricks !:mrgreen:

If you would rather shoot yourself in the foot go ahead and do it. You will have an excuse to stay at home and sit on your ass. Just use an FMJ round.:ror:

That, or just grow a pair. If you don't want to go, then don't. Since she's not willing to go to your things, don't go to hers. It kinda sounds like she's making you go because A) she doesn't want to look like a loser who doesn't have a bf, or B) she likes being in control, or C) she wants to show her friends how wrapped you are.

If its A, then there is hope. Talk to her, get her to spill the beans.

If its B or C, you need to step up or step off. Let her do it to you now, she'll do it forever.

Let her play the taco card all she wants. You aren't married, you can get it elsewhere.

Or D. they are really fing boring. I have a pair, Im at home lol I didnt go last weekend, I didnt do it this weekend, Talking to her friends is like haveing a conversation with a rubber ball! Point less. I still get mine. Just dont worrie about her needs lol. Besides WHY am I envited to a Graduation Party When i dont even know the person. Just randomly pick people to go to look like you have friends?

Sooo I stayed home and Black Op's it up. Taking a brake.

No kidding!!!

If you don't want to go, say so, otherwise you are going to get P-whipped into a lot of crap you don't want to. The trick of this is to figure out what events are really important to her, and just attend those.

I look at it like this

My wife is the greatest accessory I have,and I'm the best accessory she has.

It could be she just enjoys showing you off"thumbsup"

i cant even count how many 80's parties i have been to this year :shock:

Your girl must be an expert in the art:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNKPIOelTgA

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