auto ignoring messages?? how to fix it??
 

Ok, Ive been through ALL my settings I think.. and I have memebers saying they PM'd me on here but nothing shows.... is there a special menu I'm missing??

Click "User CP" (top left hand corner of the page), then select "Edit Options" on the left and scroll down about half way. This is where you will see the PM options. Make sure the first option (Enable PM) is checked and the second option (receive PM from only mod and admin) is unchecked.

wow... I misread that option originally.... ok, well, I official am a dumbass for not slowing down and reading
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