You know, I guess I never looked at it that way...nor have I ever wanted to screw someone over, you pay hard earned money..you deserve your product. So I can understand Youngbloods pm that he sent to me about the "gift" part...sadly Ive used paypal for years, and never seen an issue with it, but if people want to pay the 3% fee's...thats personal preference for security. To me Id rather be honest, than know for being a thief, or a liar.
however, there is a cure to that on this forum.
On a Ballcard forum, they had a system that was coded into the forums. Until you had x amount of sales done through the forum's you sent first before payment was issued. Yes it sucked, but I can say it stops the bs from people from screwing you over. Yes it does require that both parties submit feedback for each other...(kind of the lack I have seen from people in this forum)
But when you come across a situation where the seller has more sales than the buyer, since either they were new, or just never did any business on the site...then it does boil down to what the seller wants to do. Stops the cheats from screwing over such a nice place. And trust me I paid more for cards that most of the stuff I have seen on this forum...and even sent more as well.
Like I said they had this elaborate set-up coded into the site, and it worked flawless...there was a trade manager, that took care of all the stuff, and you posted what each person did or would do. And both parties had to agree to it. But when you end up sending before payment...within the first 20 sales...you gain trust with people...its almost the same as it takes 30 post's of relevant material to even gain access to the sales part here, unless you pay 20 bucks to get the star