^Yup freedom of speech is awesome and here goes my .02 on this matter at hand from what i've learned over the years through psychology courses, and human development courses. I'm not a professional by any means, but i've gathered, studied, and decided for myself what i believe on this jargon .
Sorry in advanced to the equality softies but being gay is a choice, it's been cured to the point the patient had no idea why or what drove them to have a gay mentality and wouldn't even go as far as labeling themselves as bisexual after being cured. If your brains telling you you're gay and you don't like it for one reason or another go get some therapy done; find the root of this, see what caused your brain to start to think this way etc. If you don't have a problem with it, and have no desire to change you are volunteering to give up rights a man-woman marriage gets, the ability to create life, etc. Problem is most people take the gesture as I must be gay this is who i am, have always been, and it's impossible for me to change or ever be happy any other way. WRONG. They don't want to deal with the confusion, agony, and mental work it takes to change the brain. Their fellow gays also don't want them to believe the "lies" of the psychology world telling them it's not who they are and they can't be cured. They mis-interpret previous friendships, memories, experiences, etc etc. to the point of the brain telling them this is who you are attracted to. The brain is a powerful tool which unfortunately most users never learn how it works or let alone how to operate it. You choose to be gay-consciously or not and IMO it's absurd a teenager/someone the age of the boy scouts would even label themselves in such ways. Who the **** knows who they are or what they want out of life at ages 8-16 or whatever scouts are? Nobody. That should be a bigger issue than letting gays into the scouts, sadly it's not.
Now comparing an opposite, you don't choose to be a schizophrenic (aside from excessive drug use), and you can't completely cure it, ever. If this were the case for gay's i'd have sympathy for them not being able to have the rights they want, however i still strongly believe through research and psychology studies that being gay is a choice, and they chose to not have those rights by choosing their sexual preference. If a human can remember that they were born gay, i assume they can also remember their face sliding across their mothers vagina as they entered this world. Not possible.
Science and especially psychology should have a much bigger role in the world than it does today, sadly it does not, and our gov't is slowly taking it's role on telling us what is, and what isn't.
We've been a country for 237 years and i'm fawking tired hearing about, and seeing our country not be what it used to be. I wish our founding fathers would have written a p.s. at the bottom of the Declaration of Independece that said fawk you future government, and the rest of you assholes who do not agree with what we have founded and written down here. Our country is turning us all into brain washed, mind controlled robot's, one pill, news article, technological device at a time. It's only going to get worse, and NO i'm not a bigot, religious, tin foil hat wearer. I don't hate gays, and am not uncomfortable around them. These are just my views on the matter at hand.
"All you've ever had in life was a choice".- can't remember who said it, but there's a lot of truth to it.