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Sleeping Around

SINister

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Ok so a buddy of mine starts sending me weird texts last night. Like "who's around you" and " can you help me with something". Since he was acting odd I figured he got himself in trouble and wants some help. You know cars broke down in another county or he finally killed his ex-wife, something along those lines. Nope him and his gf are fooling around and they wanted me to come over and have a go at her. He kept saying it was because he trusted me with her so I don't know if they wanted a 3-some or what. She's 19 and it was very tempting but I had to decline. I'm married is the main reason but also don't like the idea of another guy being there. I went with my first instinct and took a pass so I'm wondering what you guys would/have done in that situation.
 
i can say ive been in a 3some..

and not the cool kind either..:roll::flipoff:

i was single,
it was a lil odd at first,but i wasnt paying attention to my friend to begin with..

it wasnt planned..it just kinda happened..

then a few months later my friend asked if i would want to fool around with his wife while he watched...

i declined,i valued theyr friendship more than i wanted to have sex with his wife..


when in doubt,leave it out..or keep it out whichever works :mrgreen:
 
I'm married is the main reason but also don't like the idea of another guy being there.

So if it had been another girl, then maybe :mrgreen:?

I think you made the right choice. Even if your wife didn't find out, you'd still know, and could you live with that guilt? I know I couldn't.
 
So if it had been another girl, then maybe :mrgreen:?

I think you made the right choice. Even if your wife didn't find out, you'd still know, and could you live with that guilt? I know I couldn't.

That's what I was thinking and yes another girl would have made it much more tempting but still wouldn't want to do that to my wife.
 
i would have done the same thing you did and declined. i would have in fact been rather annoyed that a friend of mine would encourage me to stray from my wife.
what i would have done though was offered to bring my wife along for some fun... but even that is risky because it might lead to obscure feelings down the road.

i know i definitely would have never survived the guilt had i done it and not told my wife.
 
you did good declining.. years ago.. bout 1991 i had a GF.. took her home and went back in the woods.. went wheeling.. 2 girls needed a ride home.. so i took them home.. they invited me in.. so i went... next thing i knew they both were making out ON the kitchen table.. gave me the finger call to come here.. i stood up and said.....
"Well this is going to be odd"... "I have to go due to that I am faithful"...

so i walked out... do i regret it??? nawww..
it is 2012 and im still with that person... happily married since 1994 and with 2 kids....

u made the right call!
 
Pass. Not just because of the unfaithfulness of marriage, but because it would have been weird. Even if I were single, it would have been weird and could totally change the dynamics of the relationship I had with my friend.
 
Pass. Not just because of the unfaithfulness of marriage, but because it would have been weird. Even if I were single, it would have been weird and could totally change the dynamics of the relationship I had with my friend.
Wuss. Your man card should be removed. Next thing we know, you'll want to talk about your feelings or some other kind of BS...
 
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