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01-31-2010, 08:20 PM
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| Rock Crawler Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Jacksonville FL
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so about 3 weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me you could say i loved her but alot of adults would say i dont know what im talking about since im only 16 years old. anyway the point is that i want to forget about her but im finding it extremely hard to. now when im occupied doing something im fine but when i start to think about things i start missing her, i also have a class with her so during that whole class i do nothing but think about her. i know some of you guys on here must have gone through this before so im just looking for any advice to get her out of my mind thanks all |
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01-31-2010, 08:25 PM
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| I wanna be Dave Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Houston, TX
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There are plenty of fish in the sea...
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01-31-2010, 08:26 PM
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| Rock Crawler Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Jacksonville FL
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x2 i knew someone would say that
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01-31-2010, 08:28 PM
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| Rock Crawler Join Date: May 2008 Location: Sumter, SC
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Well, you are young and there will be more girls out there. You basically need to avoid as much contact as possible. Ask your teacher to move your seat if you sit close to her. Walk a different way to class. The less you see her the easier it will be. This worked for ME, will it work for you? I dont know. Another thing is to try to come to terms with it. Finding "closure" if you will. Good luck! |
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01-31-2010, 08:31 PM
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| Rock Crawler Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Jacksonville FL
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so then i probly shouldnt ask her to prom ? lol
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01-31-2010, 08:32 PM
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01-31-2010, 08:34 PM
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| Rock Crawler Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Jacksonville FL
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like 3 months she said maybe we could get back together but judging how shes kinda not been talking to me lately i doubt it
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01-31-2010, 08:36 PM
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| Rock Crawler Join Date: May 2008 Location: Sumter, SC
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3 months isnt enough time to determine if you love someone. (Thats the my adult speach, lol). In the meantime, I say avoid contact unless she initiates it. Then if you still have feelings for her see if it goes anywhere.
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01-31-2010, 08:38 PM
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| Rock Crawler Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Jacksonville FL
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hey man really appreciate it ill try and see how it works out hopefully i can forget or get back together lol thanks again though
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01-31-2010, 08:40 PM
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| Rock Crawler Join Date: May 2008 Location: Sumter, SC
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No problem. I did have a girl do the same thing to me but I let it happen TWICE. Girls are EVIL and make us weak! LOL J/K! Good Luck! |
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01-31-2010, 08:44 PM
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| Rock Crawler Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Jacksonville FL
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hahahahah my dad says the same thing . im starting to believe its tru lol jk  |
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01-31-2010, 08:49 PM
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| Quarry Creeper Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Citrus Heights
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bang one of her friends! this will take your mind off her and test the strength of your "feelings" toward each other. might help both you make up your minds |
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01-31-2010, 08:54 PM
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| Rock Crawler Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Jacksonville FL
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LMAO ehh her friends are all ugly lol my negihbor is smokin hot maybe me and her will hang out at my house some time soon!!  |
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01-31-2010, 09:09 PM
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| Quarry Creeper Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: um, Houston?
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1- Skip the prom. In the larger scheme of your life, it's a meaningless event. 2- You invested time and emotion into a relationship with her. Treat it like any other investment; some pay dividends, some don't. 3- I had 3 girlfriends in high school and I couldn't tell you where they are now or who they are married to. 4- There isn't anything that she could do for you that can't be done by a different female. The only thing unique about her was her name. She's probably enjoying that you are hung up on her. |
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01-31-2010, 09:13 PM
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| Newbie Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Omaha
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NOTHING makes you forget a woman like a new woman.
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01-31-2010, 09:25 PM
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| Quarry Creeper Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Sandy,Oregon
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I had a girlfriend at 15 I "Loved". She was 18. We dated again when I was 20 and she dumped me again. I thought it was the end of the world. I am now 40 and have been married for 13 years and have a 12 year old son. My ex is now divorced for the second or third time with kids from 2 or 3 different guys. You will get over it and find better. My ex told me I deserved better, I wish I could tell her she was right. |
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01-31-2010, 09:29 PM
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| Rock Crawler Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Vacaville, CA
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are you trying to get free crawler parts? jk. been down this road myself. You'll find another one or you'll turn gay. |
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01-31-2010, 09:29 PM
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| WOOPOOW!! Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Atlanta, GA
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Yeah, dont look at her, walk by her with a blank expression, and if she tries to hug you/walk up to you push your shoulder forward like your trying to avoid hitting another person in the hall. Thats the way i got over my EX, but i sorta ended that one |
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01-31-2010, 09:30 PM
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01-31-2010, 09:38 PM
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| Quarry Creeper Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Torrance, CA
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Do her sister if she has one or better yet, her mom. Seriously though, a lot of us here have been in your position at your age. As the saying goes, time heals all wounds. In the mean time, do your best to not think about it. You're still young so don't get too serious in a relationship yet. Have fun and play it safe! Now go tell everyone that her junk stinks and she gave you an STD! |
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