Don't feel bad. I have lost close to $9,000 due to folks not manning up to what they agreed on.
This is the best option.
Since you didn't get him to sign anything or agree to any other terms, it really is your only option if you want to move forward.
Anytime I sell something to someone who wants to make a deposit on it, I put it in writing that the deposit is non-refundable and that the buyer has X amount of time to settle the deal, after which if it has not been settled, I keep the money and put the item back up for sale. If the person won't agree and sign the paper, then they can keep on truckin'.
As a person who loves his family and will do anything to protect his family, i will protect them PERIOD. The police told me that it is not within the law to do so unless they are in my home threatening me. They have shown that they want to push me around and try to mess with the property already and that shows intent to me. Unfortunately the law protects the criminal not the homeowner in West Virginia.
You are POSITIVE his mom's house is 1 mile away? Or is that only what he told you? Do you know exactly where?
Have you ever seen the people that came to your house before?
Myself... I live in the country and know every face within at least 2 miles of me.
Either way....POLICE ... Call them now. Who cares what they told you in the past. This is the present. It will most likely not be tonight, but within a short time you WILL be ripped off.
I can't help but saying... Even if they are in the process of setting you up for a theft..... Your story is not making complete sense..... Almost like there is a key piece/event that you are leaving out.
I am seriously wondering why you did not simply hand the $500 back to the parents when they arrived instead of handing over a set of ATV tires???
Police... Call them now. No... They can not do much AFTER they rip you off. But they can go put the fear of God in them right now and patrol your neighborhood.
Cardinal Rule #1 selling things in person
NEVER at your home. Load your stuff up and take it to the buyer's location or meet somewhere in the middle.....ALWAYS
Police statistics say 3 days. Call the cops, let the know they shoved you around in your workshop, tried to get in your car while your back was turned, and ASK THE COPS TO COLLECT THE FINGERPRINTS!! If it's a scam, the cops need to be made aware of it now. If the cops won't, hell, you can even collect the fingerprints. Get some really good scotch tape, put it over the fingerprints and pressing it good. Then, put more scotch tape on the backside to protect the prints. At least you have their true identity.
Ask the cops to patrol your neighboorhood at night, and most importantly, during the day. Most robberies occur during the day while folks are at work, or out of the home.
Ever seen the a show called Swamp People....that have a famous saying "Choot'em".
:shock: Custom work not paid upfront or something?
My 1:1 stuff I do. Ya folks being all "good friend" and then bailing....
good luck catching them. my ? is did you check to make sure the $ was real?